Leaderboard

Took the wrong ski lift, to the medium slope

It was a busy ski slope

What's the most incredible, unforgettable, biggest, awesome, coincidence that ever happened to you? Marrying a person who has the same name as I have...

FleurDeLune Posted 28 May 2017 - 11:56 PM Let’s get back to basic, guys. Supposing you're not aware of any overture in the list yet. Or maybe if you're lucky enough, you did experience and surpassed any awkwardness, which might have resulted to undesirable savoir-faire, while you were still in the early stage of "getting-to- know" her / him. Having said that, I want you to share your experience in this thread (if there's any, that is). Thank you and have fun. It isn’t your imagination. We women don’t always tell you exactly what we want. Even though we won’t always spell out exactly what we want from you, as sometimes we don’t even realize what we want at first, that doesn’t mean you have to stay in the dark. There’s a linear, logical way to shed light on what women want when it comes to approaching, flirting, and getting a woman’s number. Today, I’m going to share with you how to essentially read a woman’s mind in these crucial areas so you can know what she wants, without her actually saying it to you. There are four things you should never expect a woman to tell you. Might she tell you? Sure, but if you expect it, you’re shorting her and yourself a potentially great connection. Don’t expect a woman to say, “Approach me now.” Even if she wants it, she’s not likely to go over and tell you. Does she want to be approached by everyone? No, only by men she feels at least comfortable around, if not attracted to. As long as you’re chill, that’s you! Even if she’s not attracted to you, and even if she has a boyfriend, she’ll still be flattered. Here’s how to approach her and make sure it lands the right way. Go with an attitude of, “I’m just going to say ‘hi.’ Whatever happens is great. If she responds negatively, then either (A) she’s not as nice as she looks, ( she’s having a bad night, or © I came off wrong because I’m still learning how to approach well.” That’s all. Those are the three options. Notice that not one of those is, “Oh, I guess I’m inherently unattractive!” None of those three options is deeply personal. The first is about her, the second is situational, and the third is about skill-level, which is always improvable. A great example of this kind of approach is when one client of mine was out with friends at a club recently and saw a group of girls dancing. He noticed one he felt especially attracted to and said to his friend, “I’m going to go talk to her.” His friend said, “Girls in groups don’t like that. You’ll be bothering her.” What? No. Not a helpful modus operandi. Happily, my client wasn’t fazed. He remembered what we worked on, and he said to his friend, “Well, I’ll go over there and find out!” Total badass. He approached her, and she was into him. She broke away from her friend group, and they had an amazing night together. She was even in town for a little while, and they ended up seeing each other several times! Don’t expect a woman to tell you HOW to approach. Instead, you can do what my awesome client did: Before you walk out of the house, remember why you’re attractive. Feel good about yourself by reflecting on times women were warm and responsive to you. Remember why women are attracted to you, the compliments they’ve given you. Dress well, and look good. The better you can look before you walk out the door, the more attractive you look and feel. Wear a crisp collared shirt that fits you well. Be clean, well-groomed, and smell good. These are very basic things that women notice a LOT, so pay close attention there. Warm up. Be generally social before talking to a woman you’re attracted to. Talk to other people like your friends, the bartender, and maybe a dude at the bar. This way, when you do approach, you’re warmed up already. See who you naturally feel drawn to. When you get to your venue, notice who you feel attracted to. Notice that your attraction is not just sexual towards physical looks alone. Your attraction to her is also to her vibe, as her personality naturally shows through her appearance in what she’s wearing and her facial expression. Be present to that. This helps you know that you are not being creepy. Position yourself closer to her in the room. By positioning yourself closer to her before approaching, you’re not making a direct beeline. Because you’re already nearby and you’ve been talking with other folks, it looks and feels more natural for both of you. As you approach, be open. Be open and curious to see how things unfold. This is a consistent point my most successful clients follow. Don’t expect anything; just be open to whatever you find as the dynamic begins. You are there to see what happens. You can think of yourself as a detective who’s gathering clues about her and how she feels. Say something relevant. If it’s a dancing venue, you could ask her to dance. If not, you could say something about the environment, asking her how she knows the host, mentioning something about what she’s drinking. Start talking like you know her, something short and laid back. If you want to be more intense, you can compliment her. As long as you steer clear of complimenting her boobs or ass directly, it will come across well. Don’t expect a woman to tell you, “I like you being here,” or, “I want you to leave.” To know this, you must read her well. Ask yourself based on her body language, “Does she want me to stay or go? For that matter, do I like her? Do I want to stay or go?” Watch her body language. Read her body language during her conversation. Her body will tell you whether she is open to you or not. Is her torso opening towards you or closed off from you? Is she relaxed or tense? Is she breathing deeply or holding her breath? The former in all these cases are signs she wants more of you, and the latter are signs she’s uncomfortable and not into it. Whatever feedback you get isn’t personal. It’s just information on how well you’ve read her, how developed you are in that particular skill at this point in time. Respond accordingly. If she’s not into talking with you after a few minutes, you can say pleasantly, “Hey, it was great talking to you. Enjoy your night!” If it wasn’t a long conversation at all, then you can tell her in a laid-back way, “Enjoy your night!” I’ve had clients who had women so surprised that they were so chill about it, that the women changed their minds when my clients got up to leave and said, “Wait, don’t go!” Don’t expect a woman to say, “Get my number now.” If you are having a great connection, incorporating flirtatious touch, and there is no mention of a boyfriend, she wants you to get her number. She won’t say, “Ask for my number now.” She wants you to get it. Here’s how: Plant a seed of seeing her again. While you’re talking, mention seeing her again. If you’re talking about a venue already, you can say, “It would be fun to take you there!” Planting a seed warms her up to the idea. Get her number. When you get her number, pull out your phone as you’re in conversation with her, and say, “Hey, let me get your number.” Then open your phone to the text screen and hand her the phone. By doing that, you’re taking care of it. If she doesn’t want to give you her number, she won’t. If you don’t offer, though, you’ll never know. When you’re aware of these things that women want but won’t tell you, everything gets easier. Instead of feeling presumptuous, you know that as long as you’re getting warm vibes and responsiveness from her, you’re actually doing exactly what she likes. It’s a win-win, and it eliminates drama of wondering whether you should do this or that, going back and forth in your mind. Knowing what to do and what to look for means you will finally be able to connect with women in a way we want to be connected with, and you will be handsomely rewarded for it. Source: www.nicknotas.com

I kinda agree. Haha. But nice read though.. I've learned something from above posts.

Having 4 cousins with the same birthdate, they are a set of two twins. 5 years apart.

honestly Other than food , gifts and intelligent conversations i really dont know what woman want

!! HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM JAPAN !!

!! HAPPY NEW YEAR FROM JAPAN !! Fireworks.mp4

Most of the woman will not tell you want they want or want they like, they will rather show you thru body movement and indirect statements. This is what makes woman special. Men should learn how to read their movement and minds or you will end up in a messy relationship. They love to be caressed, they love attentions and protections. Learn to be a one man woman or you will end up in multiple failed relationship.

theoneandonlymistressmia Posted 04 June 2017 - 07:56 AM It's not that women are gold diggers. But some women want men who are responsible enough to provide for their future. Bakit kami kukuha ng bato na ipupukpok sa ulo namin? We want security instead of boy who only work because they are broke. Some women want someone with dream and ambition not someone who is contented with low to average pay cheques. Remember the saying love is not enough? Its true. As for my case, my husband works for me. Wag mong lahatin. Nowadays may mas pakinabang pa mga babae kesa sa mga lalaki. Sorry to say that.

*Jessie* Posted 01 June 2017 - 01:14 AM 1. We love to be wooed. Don't just play safe. Play hard. That is the problem with this digital age. All is easy. Even sex is digital. We lose the value of playing the long game and building human connections. We love to feel that your focus is just boxed on us. Don't play safe. Some can sense if you are not really investing. 2. We love men with a plan. Not boys who keep on waiting for the right moment.We love it when u plan certain occasions but most importantly, we love it when you have long term plans. It is important for us to see that a man has vision for his future and not just going with the flow. 3. We love men who are fit or at least physically healthy. When we first met you as fit and lean, then you gradually get fat during the relationship, we understand it is cute as this ie like the couple kind of thing where you dine out most of the time and all ur bonding times are usually on eating. But we'd still love it if you keep your shape in check. After all,a man who can carry us in his arms is an attractive man. 4. Stop talking too much. Yes, we love it when our man is open to us during his times when he feels drained but please, keep it moderate, make your point and stop blabbering too much about it. 5. We love men who can spend for us not because we are gold diggers and users but we love it when a man can provide. We feel pampered and loved. We love to be treated like a princess but most of us dismiss the idea because we have this mentality that it is "too much to ask". 6. We love a man who loves to go down. There is nothing more pleasing than a man who makes us feel desirable by going down a loooooot. Not all girls will tell you they want you to go down. So go down a lot. 7. We love a man who can hold it longer. We finish a lot longer than you do. So learn to hold it and keep us really satisfied. Most of the time, you will know that your girl is satisfied is when either she asks you if you are not near yet or she keeps getting so clingy and sweet with you after doing it and while you're resting.

Ephemeral Posted 29 May 2017 - 12:38 PM This is actually a good read for those who are dating women who are too shy to say what they want or think that men are mind-readers. Let us assume that you are. I think the first step to understanding these kind of women is to LISTEN bold and CAPITALIZED. And no, not in the polite nodding-head-while-looking-at-her-boobs-and-mentally-undressing-her kind of way, which you have been doing since you discovered porn. Listen to everything she says with words and behind the words (aka body language). Non-verbal cues are the universal language of the soul. Understanding what they really mean can determine whether she likes you enough to say yes to a dinner date, a kiss, eventually charm her pants off, or meet her parents. OK so, here are some personal "wants" that some women aren't telling you (at some point in my life I've been this kind of woman). We want compliments but don't overdo it. Of course, we take essential care of our physical appearance, we studied for a presentation, we are nice to our family and friends. We don't want you to put us on a pedestal but be sincere and subtle. We want to know that you appreciate what we do. We want you to look good for us. Don't get me wrong, I support the "be who you are" and "inner beauty lasts longer" banalities. We don't want a Brad Pitt but please, do wear pants on the first date, comb that hair, or trim that beard. Put some effort. I will consider dating you if you are earning for a living. Yes, its called adulting. i have a job and I spend money for my own or my family. I'm not about to adopt you. Money isn't everything and you don't have to be filthy rich but at least be able pay for your own coffee. We want you to be sweet on special occasions. Flowers on first date? Not bad. Trying to be a cutie patootie on our first monthsary? Awww, you remembered. Additional makeout points LOL Chivalry is still not dead. I don't want to be Tits McGee and womansplain things to you. I'm sure you know that women love to be on equal footing with men but opening that door, or making sure I sit first, or asking for my permission if I want to go to a certain place is so endearing! It makes us feel valued as a human being even though we sure hell can do those on our own.

I've always wanted to go to Japan. Thanks for sharing the pics!

Do you let your partner read your private messages? Please don't forget to answer the survey, thanks!

What Fuel Do You Use? Why? Please don't forget to answer the survey ?

Thread started by D King on 25 September 2014 - 12:18 PM Having a fever today...

What's your profession? Let's start this New Year 2021 something to discuss Professional experiences. The purpose of which is to provide counsel and service to others, for a direct and definite compensation, wholly or apart from expectation of other business gain. All types of profession are welcome to discuss that may help, assist and advise every one that needing information.

Lets go Lakers!

At what age should a man marry? What about women? What's The Perfect Age to Get Married? Please don't forget to answer the survey ?

What Do You Talk About On Your First Date? Leonardo007 Posted 22 April 2006 - 02:15 AM its always better if you at least have an inkling on your date's interest... kung wala... well... why not make it the topic of your conversation... you could probably try checking if your interests are the same as the other, or something like that ? oh, and it may also help not to think too much about everything being a date... talk casually... marami namang pwedeng maging topic sa mundo diba? kung wala talaga, try doing something which would not require you to talk much... like watching movies or watching live band performances... what ever the case, always remember to keep your ears open. hindi lang ikaw ang gustong magpakilala ?

Listahan ng mga hindi natupad na announcements. Meron ba?

20 years after college, met another Rayadillo at a UN conference.

Hmmm. let's see, what do women not tell you... They will not tell you that they want to out for dinner, but they will give you clues like they are tired of the usual food. They will not tell you that they are tired, they will just sit down, watch Netflix, observe if they take a deep breath when you are not looking. It means they are tired. They will not tell you that you smell bad, they will pretend they smelled something funny but not tell you directly that it was you they smelled. They will not tell you that they want a new iPhone 12 Pro Max. They will reboot their phones every now and then. Sometimes they show you that their FB crashed. Really? FB crashes? Sometimes you will see them charging often... Battery easily drains, daw. And when you go to the mall she will say she wants to go to the Apple Store, pretends not to care about the iPhone 12 Pro Max and looks at speakers. Really? Since when did she got interested in speakers? If you love your woman, buy her the best iPhone. It's the new De Beers.

Assuming you're affiliated with the Armed Forces of the Philippines ... and you're required to follow orders "to the letter" ... considering that as of this writing 03 Jan. 2021 ... no Covid 19 vaccine has been authorized for use ... do you have the option of requesting that you take the shot AFTER it's been cleared by the FDA?

Not yet . but im scheduled mid january as per DND Requirement

Logistics Engineer for a Construction Company

Silence is a loud response.

He he he ... If I'm not mistaken, no vaccines have been authorized for use in the Philippines as of this writing. Sat. 02 Jan. If anyone answers "yes" now, he / she may be investigated by the government in reference to unauthorized use of vaccines.

I will pick the brand that will be given free by the Japanese government. It will be free here to all Filipino OWFs. When the pandemic started the Japanese gave EVERYONE 100,000 Yen. Regardless if they were Japanese or Filipinos (or any nationality). The only requirement was you had to be registered with the city.

I did not invite you, yet you still visit me every ni ...zzz

Time is the great river of our lives that can't be brought back once it has passed.

Novavax, a late-stage US biotechnology company, focuses on the discovery, development, and commercialization of vaccines to prevent serious infectious diseases. This Maryland company is smaller compared to other vaccine manufacturers. They received a $1.6 billion grant from the US government’s Operation Warp Speed to produce 100 million doses by 2021. How their vaccines work: According to an article published in the Science Magazine, a peer-reviewed academic journal of the American Association for the Advancement of Science, Novavax first inserts baculovirus into moth cells. The baculovirus, a pathogen that attacks insects, will make moth cells produce a protein called spike – which is present in coronavirus. The spikes are then harvested by scientists and mixed with a “synthetic soap like particle” where the spikes can latch on. A compound called saponin, also derived from plants and trees, is also added to boost the immune response. The NVX‑CoV2373 vaccine aims to produce anti spike antibodies that can block SARS-CoV-2 infection. Status development: As of November 30, Novavax said in a statement that it has completed the enrollment of its 15,000-patient UK Phase 3 trial. The company added that has fully enrolled the Phase 2b trial in South Africa. “Novavax expects its pivotal Phase 3 clinical trial in the United States and Mexico to begin in the coming weeks. More than 100 trial sites have been selected with some alternate sites in place, should they be needed,” the company added. Roll-out: Since the vaccine is still in its early trial stages, there is still no expected release date.

AstraZeneca is a British-Swedish multinational pharmaceutical and biopharmaceutical company that focuses on the development and commercialization of prescription medicine. Their medicines are targeted for the treatment of cardiovascular, metabolic, respiratory, inflammation, autoimmune, oncology, infection, and neuroscience diseases. AstraZeneca collaborated with the University of Oxford to create a COVID-19 vaccine. How their vaccine works: Like Russia’s Sputnik V, AstraZeneca’s vaccines use a genetically altered virus called adenovirus. This virus, which is not harmful to recipients, will carry spike protein (like the “crowns” in coronavirus). Injecting this, in theory, will help the immune system to recognize and attack coronavirus. AstraZeneca’s vaccine requires a regular fridge temperature for storage. Status development: AstraZeneca and the University of Oxford announced on December 8 that it finished the Phase 3 interim analysis for the vaccine. The researchers noted that the efficacy rate for two doses – with the first dose at half strength – reached 90 percent. While a combination of two full-strength doses only resulted in 62 percent efficacy. Issues and concerns: Scientists questioned the vaccine efficacy rate after the reported error in dosage. In a report published by the New York Times on November 25, experts inquired how the combination of half dosage for the first shot and full dosage for the second shot resulted in a 90 percent efficacy rate.

Moderna is a Massachusetts-based biotechnology company that focuses on drug discovery and development. It also makes vaccines based on mRNA. How their vaccine works: The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) website said the vaccine, also known as “mRNA-1273,” basically uses mRNA, a genetic molecule that carries the instructions for making proteins in our body. This vaccine requires two shots that will be given 28 days apart. The mRNA in the vaccine will instruct cells to make a harmless spike protein – which can also be seen on the surface of SARS-CoV-2, the new strain of coronavirus that causes respiratory disease COVID-19, said the CDC website. According to the CDC, the protruding spikes and spike fragments in the cell will then be recognized by the immune system and cause an immune response that produces antibodies. These antibodies stop the coronavirus from attacking other cells by attaching to the virus’s spikes. The antibodies can also mark the virus so other cells can detect and destroy it. Moderna’s vaccine needs to be stored at -20C. Status development: Moderna announced last month that it has finished the first interim analysis of the Phase 3 study for mRNA-1273. According to the company, the study showed that its vaccine has an efficacy rate of 94.5 percent. Issues and concerns: Based on a study published in The New England Journal of Medicine, Moderna’s vaccine can protect for at least three months. But according to a report by the New York Times, since the vaccine is new, researchers still have no idea how long the vaccine’s protection will last. The report added that the number of antibodies and T-cells might reduce months after the vaccination. However, memory B-cells and memory-T cells might retain the information about the coronavirus even after years or decades. Roll-out: Moderna applied for emergency use authorization to the U.S. Food and Drug Administration (USFDA) on November 30. USFDA is set to decide on its application on December 17. If approved, Moderna can start releasing its vaccines in the US before the end of the month.

DaChosen1 Posted 21 April 2006 - 01:41 PM Blind Date - I may have a few scripted plans for different scenarios. However, I usually let it fly spontaneously and be myself. So far, none of my blind dates ended on that one date. - Try to fish for something to talk about. I ask questions and just listen. My biggest assets---I'm a listener, I keep eye contact at all times, and smile a little bit but not too much. - If I can feel that the date will be the first and last because we do not click at all, we may not talk much about anything. First date with someone I kind of know: - Same tactics as above though much relaxed. Friendship is my first goal; get to know the girl more beyond what I already know. Hobbies, families, about their friends, and most of all about themselves are always excellent topics. I make sure the girl feels at ease with me and sense that I’m interested in really knowing about her.

Originally Posted by skitz on 22 June 2007 - 11:26 AM I like women who are a little awkward. You know, those girls who are suffering from the ugly-duckling syndrome. I don't know. I just don't like women who are full of it, I guess. But hey, when I say a little awkward, I emphasize A LITTLE... iba na ang usapan kung inferiority complex na.

Originally Posted by Saeki on 17 June 2007 - 07:38 PM taller than me (i'm 5'5) mabango ang leeg (i really dont know y!!!!) mas maitim sakin maganda ang paa

Originally Posted by Aquaenogma on 17 June 2007 - 01:29 AM thick eyebrows, deep kinda sleepy eyes deep voice long hair-artistic kinda "ermitanyo" look child-like laughter ticklish men

My energy level made me sad today. Gone are the days when I could jump around, run around, joke around... getting old.

Yes please. It’s about time we fast track this.

My purpose in life is to be a good mother to my children