Viola
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So i broke up with him. He doesnt want to but i guess when one party wants to leave, you've broken up.
There were a lot of red flags. I can justify most of them. But he became verbally abusive that i had to draw the line.
He said he has anger issues and that's why he lashed out on me. But when the verbal abuse continued, i had to stand my ground.
And although, i still want to be with him, unless there's a change somewhere, then he would just continue to last out on me. And im not one to be abused like that.
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@Viola I'm sorry to hear that you and Soyboy are no longer together. He didn't take rejection lightly but that's fine, I hope you'll stand your ground and not given in. No matter what he will tell you : the fact still that he needs to grow up and resolve whatever he has in his heart.
You can't be the ex girlfriend's doppelganger. If I were you, I won't mind him ranting along because that's how little boys do when they don't get what they want.
You're not a plaything, You're a humanbeing. You are not going to accept this kind of behavior. You are not going to walk on eggshells everytime he gets upset with you.
You are not his mommy or his therapist. 😕
Viola, You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won't happen automatically. You have to rise up and say " I don't care how hard this, I don't care how disappointed I am, I'm not going to let this get the best of me. I'm moving on with my life".
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