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Viola

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  1. So i broke up with him. He doesnt want to but i guess when one party wants to leave, you've broken up.

    There were a lot of red flags. I can justify most of them. But he became verbally abusive that i had to draw the line. 

    He said he has anger issues and that's why he lashed out on me. But when the verbal abuse continued, i had to stand my ground.

    And although, i still want to be with him, unless there's a change somewhere, then he would just continue to last out on me. And im not one to be abused like that. 

    1. Nightwriter

      Nightwriter

      @Viola I'm sorry to hear that you and Soyboy are no longer together. He didn't take rejection lightly but that's fine, I hope you'll stand your ground and not given in. No matter what he will tell you : the fact still that he needs to grow up and resolve whatever he has in his heart.

      You can't be the ex girlfriend's doppelganger. If I were you, I won't mind him ranting along because that's how little boys do when they don't get what they want. 

      You're not a plaything, You're a humanbeing. You are not going to accept this kind of behavior. You are not going to walk on eggshells everytime he gets upset with you.

      You are not his mommy or his therapist. 😕

      Viola, You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won't happen automatically. You have to rise up and say " I don't care how hard this, I don't care how disappointed I am, I'm not going to let this get the best of me. I'm moving on with my life".

      Happy Cat GIF by Kagami Shinohara

  2. Headache, high fever and body pains. This vax dose hit me hard. And then deadlines for tomorrow. Need to work. Need to rest.

    1. Nightwriter

      Nightwriter

      @Sofia take care always, Sofia. 

       

  3. Another bad day

    1. PanDuhh

      PanDuhh

      What's wrong? What happened?

  4. I'm going to play around with R programming today. So excited!

  5. Letting go...soon. not yet but soon. Sooner i hope. 

  6. Nagsigawan kami ng asawa ng tita ko. Bastos kasi. Lumabas tuloy beast mode ko after many years. 

  7. Reading Bleach manga and adult Toshiro looks like a kpop idol.

  8. I didnt get work done earlier. So now it'll be another sleepless night. Anybody up? Let's chat.

  9. Im really glad it is Friday. I wish I could go out but apparently the big NCR+ bubble is now broken into tiny bubbles.🤔🤔🤔

  10. TGIF.. i need a break. 

  11. Just started crying for a very good reason. That wasnt the reaction i was expecting. But thank you. Take care always. 

  12. Out on errands and everything is out of stock or closed. 

  13. My mind is going blank from coding day and night. I need a kausap. Soon, I'll talk like one of the scripts I coded ..

     

    function penge_kausap() {

    var bored = getActiveMood();

    IF (var bored=true; socialize(); work());

    }

  14. Cant sleep

     

  15. There are days when happiness seems to have taken the day off. 

  16. I cant wait for this day to be over so i can start my 9-day vacation 

  17. Taking a sick day today...

  18. Vacation Day 1 - i woke up early as always and checked my work emails before I realized I'm on vacation. 

    I resumed painting then went out to eat samgyup. Went home right away and now Im so full, I just want to sleep.

  19. What happened? Did i do or say anything wrong? I don't know.  So I'll just stay silent and do what I do best...

     

    I might even finish this darn painting..

  20. I havent had a drink in a long long while. Since I am vacation, I can drink again. 

  21. Ok...the excitement with the whole vacation thing has worn off. Im now bored. Cant do anything. Cant go anywhere. Nobody to spend my vacay with.  Hays.

  22. Movie night with cousins... A few bottles of soju later... I'm more than tipsy. 🙂 Kinda a perfect way to end the work week

  23. Good morning! Another day trying to figure out the service marketplace. 

  24. Oh well... It lasted for a bit longer than the average. I should be used to it by now. 

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