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Kilalanin nyo maigi ang babaing kursunada nyo hindi porket maganda at malambing sayo sapat na. Iwasan nyo sa babae ang may bisyo lalo na yong mahilig sa inuman at higit sa lahat ADIK pala...... pag ang babae ay gumagamit wala na yang pagasa dahil wala na yang katwiran bisyo lang ang nasa isip palagi.

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I think this applies to both women and men : Don't be sleeping with somebody who had slept with a lot of people! Chances are, the relationship wouldn't last. 

People with a lot of vices, specifically if they drink liquor a lot. Just like si Kuya, above me, ⬆️he specifies that if the person makes so many excuses just for the bottle - RUN. 

Lastly, I like to remind everybody is that there are people who are mentally unstable. We cannot change people as much as we invested our feelings and money towards them. If somebody makes you feel bad about yourself. 

Leave the relationship. 

 

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Avoid someone who mistakes kindness with flirting then paint you as the bad guy. Learned my lesson the hard way.

There's this bullied girl sa org, kaya I befriended her. Actually lahat naman friend ko, mapapababae o mapalalake. Marami ng nagbigay ng warning sakin na psycho sya kaya iwas-iwasan ko. Pero ang mantra ko kasi noon, always choose to see the good in others. I was too young and fool at that time, masyadong idealistic. Para na rin smooth ang lahat sa team, at para na rin sa well-being ng utak ko. Hindi naman sa nagmamalinis pero sure ako na clear ako sa intention ko sa lahat. Ayoko rin kasi na namimisinterpret ako, mahirap kasi mag'mend ng misunderstanding, lalo na pag di open yung other side sa maayos na communication.

Then yep, after ilang months umamin sya. I explained it to her, which she says alam naman nya and di sya nag eexpect na ireciprocate ko yun. So clear naging usapan namin (sa tingin ko). Naging nice pa rin ako sakanya, while being sensitive sa emotion nya. I don't really wanna shit where I eat. Kaya iwas-iwas sa ka-team pag dating sa love aspect.

After more than a year, nagkaroon ako ng ka-relasyon (labas ng org). At ayun na nga, nag psycho-mode si girl. She spread rumors, nag-hit daw ako sakanya, di-nate ko daw sya, at kung anu-ano pa to the point na nag-all out sya, tnry nya talaga na imanipulate lahat, bribing them with treats, para lang pakinggan sya sa "heartbreak" nya. Syempre alam ko sa sarili ko na hindi totoo yun, kaya naging confident ako at inignore ko. Besides my friends knows me (yun ang akala ko). 

Talo ka pala pag babae ang nagdrama at ginamit nya ang "gender card" (sorry ayoko mag tunog sexist dito, pero wala na kong maisip na mas magandang word para idescribe). Hindi ko rin inexpect na a woman who is around ten years older than me would do that, sabagay wala din kasi talagang pinipiling age ang heartbreak and hatred. May naniwala sakanya, may hindi, at may nag-confirm muna. Na'hurt ako hindi dahil sa ginawa nya, kundi dahil dun sa mga naniwala agad sakanya at di muna nag confirm kasi mostly sakanila matatagal ko ng kasama, sinisimulan palang yung team, hanggang sa nag grow. At least diba may lesson sa akin. Baka may mali rin talaga ako.

Never akong nagka-issue (non-work related) sa org, bukod sa pagiging confrontational ko pag work-related matters, bread and butter mo then gagawa ka ng kapalpakan na maaapektuhan ang team. Ito lang talagang pangyayari na ito.

Luckily, wala na ko doon at nakakita na ako ng better opportunity and pay. Flexi din ang oras, at sa bahay lang. Walang office drama, at mas konti kami sa team.

Kung maingat ako sa trato ko sa tao noon, mas maingat ako ngayon. Medyo picky na rin ako sa mga taong gusto ko maka-mingle ng dahil sa horror story na yun. Hindi na rin ako takot mawalan ng friends, at mas tine-treasure at na-a'appreciate ko na lalo yung mga totoo sakin (being true doesn't mean being nice lagi, may mga brutal akong friends na ready akong batukan at murahin pag may palpak ako o maling point of view). So ya, win pa rin dahil sa lessons na natutunan ko.

 

 

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